If you want to attract women, then you need to learn how to be a flirt. Girls like nice guys but they want someone who is fun too. And to girls, flirting is FUN. They love to joke around, be teased, and touched because it feels like they're interacting with a good friend. If you want to learn how to be a flirt, and how to talk with a girl, then I'd recommend you check out one of the eBooks on flirting. They are written by Pick Up experts who have approached thousands of girls on the street and now they do it with no hesitation.

I like these books because they gives a structured way to interact with women and provide some great examples you can use. As mentioned in our original how to flirt with girls post, you need to start the conversation, get her attracted to you, then show her you're attracted to her. This is EXACTLY what this book covers, using the following layout: having the right mindstate, opening (starting the conversation), generating attraction, and showing interest in her.

Beyond these three topics, they also discuss how to generate comfort with a girl, and how to start seducing a girl to get her into a sexual state. It's important to learn about relationships, and how to act depending on what type of relationship you want (sex buddy, long term relationship, MULTIPLE long term relationships, and on). Another important topic is the importance of your Social Circle. It's a lot easier to gain trust and meet women within your social circle. The way they discuss the differences between approaching women within your social circle and approaching strangers on the street is eye opening.

I personally enjoy talking to women during the day, instead of in clubs and bars. I feel that they are less likely to have their guard up, and won't perceive you as a threat, as they might in a nightclub situation.

In my personal opinion, the most important skills you should know are in order to attract women are the following:

• Storytelling
• Physical Progression ("Kino Escalation")
• Dates
• Non Verbal Communication
• Fashion/Grooming
• Kissing
• Being a wingman for your friend
• Talking on the Phone

Many of these eBooks cover all of these topics in great detail, and give you specific examples. They also explain WHY they believe each element is so important. I'm a major fan of Guy Gets Girl because it is a great introductory book to getting dates, and if you want to learn how to be a flirt and great with women, take the initiative and get out there!